I’m Shelby

..and the truth is, for the first time in my life I’m focusing on figuring out who I am. Life has been a mix of lessons, growth and plenty of wtf am I am doing? moments and I’m here, openly navigating this season of life with equal parts uncertainty, curiosity, and determination.

I’ve lived a lot of life in my 30-something years, and every twist and turn has taught me something. Above all else, I’ve learned that I’m resilient, I’m passionate, and sometimes a little too real for my own good. I believe in messy conversations, showing up even when it’s hard, and pushing for growth in all the uncomfortable places. There’s purpose to be found, even in the darkest parts of life, and this blog is my way of exploring it all. It’s a mix of creative ideas, self-care tips, my effortless-edge approach to fashion, and unfiltered thoughts about the everyday ups and downs.

I’m not here to pretend I have all the answers. I’m just here to keep it real and remind you that it’s okay not to have it all figured out. We’ll navigate the chaos together—finding inspiration, chasing growth, and discovering the answers, one foot in front of the other.

I’m glad you found your way here.